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BEHAALOTCHA 5784 Timing is Everything
Did you ever wonder why there are obscure passages in the Torah that seem to have little or no meaning? And yet, our Sages tell us that every passage in the Torah is pregnant with meaning—with so much to say to us. Take for instance the passage in the today’s Torah reading about 2 trumpets (Numbers 10:1-10): Hashem spoke to Moses saying, “Make for yourself 2 Silver Trumpets—make them hammered out and they shall be yours for the summoning of the assembly and to cause the camps to journey. When they sound a long blast, the entire assembly shall assemble to you, to the entrance of the Tent of Meeting. If a long blast is sounded with only one, the leaders shall assemble to you … short blasts shall they sound for their journeys …”
We have no need for these trumpets in our day. It is impossible to gather the Jewish people—who are all over the world—with their sounds. So why is this in the Torah? Not every instruction given to Moses by Gd on how to lead his people is in the Torah. There must be an important lesson here.
One of the lessons of the trumpets is clearly that timing is everything in life. The timing of the notes, the pause between the notes, is essential to communicate its message. Several years ago, a best friend and colleague, Rabbi Bernhard Rosenberg and his family, left the Sbarro Pizza restaurant in Jerusalem with his family just minutes before PLO terrorists bombed it. Had anyone in his family ordered another slice, who knows??
There are things in life that occur with a randomness that defies understanding. But then there are other things that seem to carry a great significance and meaning. Rabbi Raphael Kanter tells 2 stories of hospital visits he had made. One was in a hospital room with a family gathered around the bed of a man in a coma. After speaking with them, he suggested that they pray together. They joined hands and prayed, and then Rabbi Kanter recited the Mishebeyrach prayer for healing the sick. Just as they said “Amen” together as he finished—to everyone’s astonishment—the man in the coma opened his eyes and began speaking with his family! Astonishing! Remarkable!
Rabbi Kanter later received a lot of good-natured kidding from the hospital personnel during his next visit: “Hey, Rabbi, would you come and visit my patient today?” But everyone in that room agreed that this was a remarkable moment of connection between them, the patient, and Gd.
On another occasion, Rabbi Kanter entered the hospital room of someone who was terminally ill. The family shared with him the prognosis that he would die in a short time. Rabbi Kanter suggested that he say the special prayer known as Vidui—a prayer for the last moments of life. The family gathered around the bed, and Rabbi Kanter recited: O Lrd, our Gd, and Gd of our fathers, we acknowledge that our lives are in Your hands. May it be Your will that You bring healing, but if it is Your decree that he be taken by death, let it be merciful. They concluded the prayer with the words of the Shema, “Hear, O Israel, Hashem is our Gd, Hashem One.” When they said the final word, echad (One), signifying that Gd is one with everything and everyone, the dying man breathed a final breath and died.
Rabbi Kanter later said: Some might say I was lucky. I think that something much deeper was going on. He was not an observant Jew, yet there was this harmony in the room when the Shema was on their lips that made it possible for his dying. It was a powerful moment of harmony on earth and in heaven.
Rabbi Nachman Seltzer and Eli Beer (head of the amazing Emergency Medical organization Hatzalah International), wrote a book, Angels in Orange (p. 272) about the heroes of Hatzalah on October 7th. On October 7th, when everyone was running away from Gaza, thousands of Hatzalah EMTs were running toward it. The Israeli Army’s emergency medical staff was overwhelmed. Hatzalah went on to save thousands of lives. In the book there is the story of a young man named Ro’i and his wife who were at the Supernova Music Festival when it was attacked by Hamas. This is how Ro’i tells it: During the music festival, I remember standing there, filming everything going on. Suddenly, I noticed that there were rockets flying in our direction. Grabbing my wife’s hand, I said, “We’re running to the car this second!” We started running with rockets flying in our direction and the music still playing. “This could be our last moment together,” Ro’i said. My wife said, “Don’t talk shtuyot (foolishness). Hashem is watching over us!” Suddenly we passed a car, and I saw man sleeping inside. I knew that if I didn’t alert him, he was going to die. I knocked on the window and yelled, “Get up! Get up!” I kept knocking and yelling for a very long half a minute till he woke up. (He called me 5 days later saying, “I can’t thank you enough. You saved my life. I have 3 children”) We continued to our car, jumped inside, and drove away. My wife saw 2 pickup trucks—one black, the other white—and each had about 8 terrorists standing on the truck-bed. I looked at the terrorists just as they aimed their weapons at us and started shooting. I pushed my wife’s head down below the window, and continued driving, all the while screaming, “Shema Yisrael ...!” That scream was strong and loud—I don’t even know where it came from. Meanwhile, the terrorists were shooting at us, and I was driving. I remember looking up for a second and seeing the bullets corning from every direction, but miraculously, none of them hit us. A few seconds later, I raised my head and looked in the rearview mirror and saw the 2 pickup trucks turn left in the direction of the festival. As we arrived in Beersheva, a rocket landed close by, and a house went up in flames. It’s been 5 days since we almost died, and I find myself asking Hashem, “Who am I? And what do You want from me?” Because of everything we went through and all the miracles, our family has decided to start keeping Shabbat!
As the adage goes: “Timing is everything.” It was timing that saved Rabbi Rosenberg and his family from that PLO bombing. It was timing that created such spiritual moments in the hospital with Rabbi Kanter. And it was timing that saved Ro’i, his wife, and the man asleep in the car.
It’s timing that the Torah hints at today, when it describes those ancient communication devices—the Silver Trumpets—used to summon the people. Moses was told that these 2 trumpets were to be sounded to bring the people together for 2 kinds of occasions: one is to sound an alarm in times of crisis or danger, and the other to proclaim a celebration like a festival or new moon.”
The use of these 2 trumpets points to the 2 situations where we have the potential to become more aware of Gd in our lives: strengthening us in times of crisis and danger, and providing us a way to express our joy in connecting with Gd in times of celebration.
There are occasions in all our lives when we become aware of a special sense of the “flow” of time. The parent who steps into the stream of traffic to snatch a child from the path of an oncoming truck will describe how time seemed to slow down enabling her in slow-motion-time to know exactly what to do.
Remember when you were little, out playing your favorite game and your mother had to find you and bring you home in the twilight, because in the joy of the game, you had lost all awareness of the passage of time.
It can happen when you become engrossed in learning—either in class or in reading a book. It can happen in deep meditation or in prayer. In those special moments, we seem to be “in the Zone”—outside the normal realm of time and fully present in the moment. It is at these special moments that the Shechina, Gd’s presence, can more easily enter our lives.
And there is one thing more. This awareness works in both directions. If this awareness of Gd comes to you in a time of crisis, it’s possible to call it up later, in a time of joy, and realize the preciousness of that time of celebration. Like: “O’ my Gd, I could have died in that car accident and would not have made it to my daughter’s wedding! Baruch Hashem, thank Gd!”
And if a feeling of gratitude to Hashem comes over you when you’ve received something far beyond what you deserve, pull up that awareness during times of crisis with the knowledge that Hashem always has your back!
My friends, the Torah’s Silver trumpets disappeared long ago when the ancient Temples were destroyed. But if you try, I think it’s still possible to hear their echo—opening up a path for Gd to come into your life, to make you strong in the dark times and able to appreciate joy when it comes. Yes, we no longer have the Silver Trumpets. But Gd still summons us in many different ways. We just have to open our hearts to hear the call. Amen! |
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NASO 5784 The Miracle of the Bathroom You’ve heard quite a few sermons lately—especially over Shavuot. So instead of a sermon this morning, I’d like to study with you today’s Haftorah. I recently discovered an important insight in the text that I’d like to share with you. Please turn to page 1181 in our Chumashim. The Haftorah is the story of the birth of the mighty Samson. We read this story today is because the Torah reading contains the laws of the Nazir, the Nazirite, and Samson was a Nazir—perhaps the most famous. Samson’s birth was different from most others. It was announced—in advance—by an angel. Let’s read beginning with verses (Judges) 13:3-5: An angel of Gd appear to the woman and said to her, “Behold now! You are barren and have not given birth, but you shall conceive and give birth to a son. And now, be careful not to drink wine or intoxicant, and not to eat anything prohibited [to a nazirite]. For you shall conceive and give birth to a son; a razor shall not come upon his head for the lad shall be a nazarite of Gd from the womb, and he will begin to save Israel from the hand of the Philistines.” The woman runs and tells her husband Manoach that something incredible just happened to her. Let’s continue reading 13:6-7: The woman came and told her husband, “A man of Gd came to me, and his appearance was like the appearance of an angel of Gd—very awesome! [It seems that this expression is thousands of years old.] I did not ask him where he was from, and he did not tell me his name. He said to me, ‘Behold, you shall conceive and give birth to a son; and now, do not drink wine or intoxicant, and do not eat anything prohibited [to a nazirite], for the lad shall be a nazirite of Gd from the womb until the day of his death.’” Manoach is astonished. He doesn’t want to be left out and he wants to confirm what his wife has told him, so he prays to Gd and says (verse 13:8): Please, my Lrd, may the man of Gd whom You sent come now again to us and teach us what we should do to the lad who will be born. The angel does come back—but not to Manoach. He comes back to his wife! Evidently, either this is an angel who likes to talk to women more than to men, or, more likely, his wife is on a higher spiritual level and more worthy. This time, however, she runs to get her husband so that he can see the angel for himself. The husband asks the mysterious angel to please repeat the instructions ¼ and the angel does so. Then, Manoach, feeling very grateful to this mysterious angel asks him in verse 13:15: Please let us detain you, and we shall prepare for you a kid of the goats. In other words, “Won’t you please let us make a meal for you?” And the angel replies in verse 13:16: If you detain me, I shall not eat from your food, but if you would bring up an elevation-offering, bring it up to Hashem. In other words, “Thank you, but no thank you. I don’t eat human food. If you wish to make an offering, make it to Gd, not to me.” So Manoach offers a sacrifice to the Gd ... and now comes the insight I want to study with you in verse 13:19: Manoach took the kid of the goats and the; meal-offering and brought them up on the rock to Hashem; and [here are special words] UMAFLI LAASOT, he [the angel] performed a miracle as Manoach and his wife watched. [What was the miracle?] It happened that as the flame rose up from atop the altar toward the heavens, the angel of Hashem went up in the flame of the altar; Manoach and his wife were watching, and they fell upon their faces to the ground. Something wondrous, something miraculous, something beyond human understanding occurred. The angel went up in the flames of the altar and disappeared. When Manoach and his wife see it ... they stand there awestruck—overwhelmed, frightened. They were privileged to witness a miracle. No wonder they were willing to do whatever the angel told them to do after they saw him go up in smoke. Wouldn’t you? So far, the story pretty clear. Now listen carefully to the special insight. Does anyone recognize that Hebrew phrase, Umafli laasot (He performed a miracle)? Anyone? A colleague, Rabbi Jack Reimer, makes a connection of this phrase to a prayer that I had not thought of before. Umafli laasot, Rabbi Reimer points out appears in Asher Yatzar prayer—recited whenever a Jew comes out of the bathroom. Let’s read it on page 14 of our Siddurim: Baruch Ata Hashem, Elokeynu, melech haolam, asher yatzar et haadam bichochmah, uvara vo n’kavim, n’kavim, chalulim, chalulim. Galui viyadua lifney chisey ch’vodecha, sh’im yipateyach echad meyhem, o yisateym echad meyhem, iefshar l’hitkayem v’laamod l’fanecha. Baruch ata Hashem, rofey kol basar, UMAFLI LAASOT. (Blessed are You, Hashem our Gd, King of the universe, Who fashioned man with wisdom and created within him many openings and many cavities [a whole network of veins and arteries]. It is obvious and known before Your Throne of Glory that if any but one of them were to be ruptured or but one of them were to be blocked, it would be impossible to survive and stand before You. Blessed are You, Hashem, Who heals all flesh and acts wondrously.) Do you recognize that Hebrew phrase—umafli laasot? The very same phrase used to describe the mysterious angel miraculously going up in flames ... is used to describe our ability to go to the bathroom, our ability to move our bowels. Now, is there anything more mundane than our bodily functions? Why on earth then is the very same phrase--umafli laasot—used to describe a wondrous act that was done once and only once by an angel ... and a routine act—a lower bodily function—that is done every day by human beings? And that’s the point! The normal, everyday, routine functioning of the human body—even or especially the lower bodily functions—is just as miraculous as the angel’s once-in-a-lifetime ascent to heaven. Do you understand what this prayer is saying to us? That we should never take the workings of our bodies for granted, just because we are so accustomed to them. The fact that our eyes can see, the fact that our ears can hear, the fact that our bloodstream works, the fact that we are able to inhale and exhale, the fact that our digestive system works ... these must never be taken for granted. They are wonders—no less remarkable, amazing, astonishing, than the angel who was able to go up to heaven in the flames. The miraculous and the mundane, the extraordinary and the ordinary, are not unconnected realms. Where do you find Gd? Some people find Gd in the workings of the cosmos—in the fact that the stars move in their stations in the sky in such superb order. Some people find Gd in the Grand Canyon, Niagara Falls, or other such awesome works of nature. And whether we want to admit it publicly or not, some people—and I suspect it happens to all of us at one time or another—find Gd in the bathroom! In fact, I think more prayers are said in the bathroom today than anywhere else! The point of this phrase—umafli laasot—is that we can and we should find Gd—not only in the stars, not only in the Grand Canyon and not only in Niagara Falls. Gd is to be found even in the everyday functioning of our bodies. Let me say in all seriousness that the Ashar Yatzar prayer is one of the most profound in all of Jewish liturgy. May I suggest that you make a copy of it, cut it out, and carry it with you wherever you go and recite it throughout the day as the need arises to show your gratitude to Gd for the miraculous functioning of our bodies. I don’t know any other religious tradition that contains a prayer to be said after going to the bathroom. Do you? My friends, let’s bless Gd for all the many wonders He showers upon us. May we learn to notice them, to pay attention to them—not only when they break down, but especially when they work. And to this, let us all say, Amen!
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